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Its really a blessing and love of all my acquaintances and well wishers that always supported me to move ahead towards my dreams accomplishment. Scratch My Soul is one of the same platform whereby i got love and support along with encouragement. "Ruhai....A Saga Of Love" was one of my dreams which I wanted to pen down as a casket of thoughts of a soul longing for love and desirous of various emotions in life.
earlier this casket of thoughts was confined to my own world but now it will be among the masses.
To quote" Dreaming has no limits but limits comes to the forefront while working for it."
Sharing the links for Pre-order of my book.
http://www.amazon.com/Ruhai-Saga-Love-Rohina-Ratti/dp/9381696322/ref=sr_1_2?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1368854768&sr=1-2
http://www.cyberwit.net/authors/rohina-ratti
Pleas do visit the link and bless me. I'll be obliged and thanks.
Regards.
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A dream ultimately going to materialize that I saw once. It is a different yet fascinating experience for me to be an author of a book. Finally i got my thoughts in the form of the book. ''Ruhai.....a saga of love'' is the name of the book that is soon going to be released giving me a new experience altogether. I owe my thanks to Scratch my soul family for motivating me from time to time by means of their reviews on my blogs. I further seek blessings of you all regarding my upcoming work too.
Regarding the book I would just like to unveil that its an anthology of love poems depicting the thoughts of a girl who longs for love and a wish to fly.
following is the link of my page by means of which I'll be updating the news regarding the book from time to time.
https://www.facebook.com/RuhaiASagaOfLove
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An old adage goes, ' a stitch in time saves nine', really goes up to the mark in terms of health in particular. Ii am not from a medical field but awareness can be brought from any one. The main reason of people suffering from ailments is the lack of awareness and also the fact that they want to hide the truth, but this mentality can lead to nowhere. In fact if one wants to hide the real thing , they can but through discussion or any other form they can disclose the cause, treatment and the matters related to it. Woman in particular may gossip about others but not talk about herself. but I think its high time to forget about what others think and aim at our own health related issues.
With the advancement of science, certain ailments like cancer and other incurable diseases which come to the limelight in the last stage to people where no scope of hope is left and the only comment that comes from relatives and near ones is that " wish he would have got the check up." but unfortunately the talks are useless and the pain that is the outcome is to be tolerated by our own souls.
"Fibroadenoma" is one of the kind that is ignored by the female action by treating it just as the hormonal changes or something benign. Although ' Fibroadenoma ' is the most common benign tumor of the breast in women under age 30 and is not a cancerous but in certain cases it may turn into malignant one. when the treatment and the diagnosis can be done in time then why to wait for the worst outcome as the pain is to be tolerated by ourselves then why to wait. As it does not only lead to physical deformities as the outcome but also leads to make our mental health also suffer. Through this write up I just want to help the ladies and especially the girls under 30 to go for the diagnosis and take proper remedies. Its not to fear about anything but its just about our own health.
Love thy health because if we love ourselves then only the world is going to love us. I hope my little effort can be helpful in saving a single soul. If timely done is the diagnosis, I think we will be on a safer hand....Stay healthy..!!
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Ecriture Feminine' or ''writing the feminine''. In earlier times there was a poetic genre of 'Rekhti' where male poets spoke in the feminine, but fake voice which was done similarly in the plays presented in the courts as females weren't allowed to move out of the threshold and the veil. In present era when Ramlila is being portrayed the female characters of Mother Sita and other are done by the male only. Unlike the fake voice the feelings that were reflected the essence that was produced wasn't real on the similar canvas what ought to be and hence full of deceit.
No doubt, a male person or author can become feminine in writing but cannot pen down the essence of the genuine feelings and aspirations of a woman as from being centuries the woman isn't allowed to put her feelings and thoughts on the canvas. This rekhti was followed by "courtesan poets" or woman who were often fairly accomplished as poets as poets but were, nevertheless, beyond the pale of society. Gradually women from the middle strata of the society started composing poetry but it was read privately as the woman was supposed to be in the garb of the veil designated by patriarchy and so does their work. So, the question of their work being published was still a mirage.
From the pioneering flight of Sarojini Naidu to Kamala Das to the younger slot such as Anita Nair and Tishani doshi, it has been a long journey. They probably evoke a world that is distinct from the male world and of academic interest to the male reader. possibly what is needed are collections that reveal the diversity of women's voices and interpret the real heart of a woman in multitude of ways and express concerns that goes beyond a woman's world of the threshold.
Now female readers and writers could be found in sufficiently large numbers in the form of experienced as well as budding writers. when there is no need to quote the different professions as women lawyers , women teachers etc., then..Why only do we feel the dire need to differentiate between the male and a female author??
Why does the gender of the writer matter??
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Rohina Feminist.
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Hai ik amanat meri yeh sansein,
na jane kab tham jaengi.
ruki hai ik intejar mein tere,
bas . , na jane kab tham jaegi.
kudrat ka niyam hai hawaon ka yu itrana,
par. , na jane kab ye hawaen tham jaengi.
ansu banke moti chehre pe sawarte hai pal pal,
na jane kya., kabi ye tham paenge..!!
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Several Valentine’s Day come and go. For youth it is like a symbol status to have a girlfriend or boyfriend. On this particular day everyone plans to impress their beloved souls but in this blind race of pampering, the intellectuals are lost somewhere in the bay. Pristine love reflects through the eyes and soul of a person where tears and smile is a beautiful combo that comes only when the heart beats for the only one u want with you. A friend in love or love in friendship is such a sweet combo where trust and love binds you for eternity. ‘Love’ is hard to define and find as well, as the innocent love has been occupied with the lusty desires and the respect and trust that used be the pillars of love has weakened from the very base. It’s all meaningless residues that are left out now as the youth is deliberately changing their partners and also it has mingled with the essence of materialism where monetary fog has blurred the sight of truth. It’s difficult to build a wall of trust but when broken it shatters not only the wall but the base as well. … thereby, blurring the vision.
Since years, I kept a vigil on the rose to blossom up in my hands to spread the fragrance of love and beauty. . But I guess the divine rose is still in the bud taking its own time to blossom. Try not to ruin the wall Of trust.. its the base of love too. As it is this reason that the masses are ruining their relationships in common. To search for a soul mate who accepts you the way you are is seems to be a mirage in this desert of loneliness. People come and go but love never dies …. Is left only to misconception. Such adages are left only theoretically or in epics where love was sought to be pristine and pious. It is only in dreams that the pristine love be found. Either we have to be a part of the race or be a spectator from far staring at people ruining themselves. Choice is ours.. whether to bring in the change in the world or let the world meet its fate.
Well regarding me.. I just hope to meet the one who will help me rectify my views and bring in changes with all his love and care so that I can have a benign sleep in his lap until my last breath. As love is momentary , so is the life..!!
Happy Valentine's day to all the blogger's family.
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Posted on
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Candle marches, protests and all agitated works are not the real measurers that could stop the evil acts against the human race. As the Mayan’s civilization had predicted that in the December 2012 the world or rather the humanity would come to an end but we all are witness here that the world is still alive but symbolically the humanity has come to an end. Really did the humanistic approach of the so called humans have vanished somewhere in the backdrop. And only the lust, hunger for materialism is what has come to forefront. The language of love that Paulo Coelho describes in one of his books “The Alchemist” needs to be brought out in practicality mingled with respect towards the human as well as the nature in order to accomplish ones goal. But the word love seems to be vaporized as well. In early ages, where love was sought to be the most inspiring human values that could lead to the survival of the one who is taking its last breath. But unfortunately with the passing of the centuries, the theme of ravishing love turned into the aspect of lust which when overpowers the human being makes him forget the fact that who is whether the human or the divine parent of the girl child. But the beast in him makes him do such a gruesome act like raping an innocent girl just for his own pleasures.
Corruption or any other similar crime that shakes the very roots of the nation isn’t too deadly and ghostly as compared to the crime that took place sometime ago in the capital of the city. When the girl isn’t safe in the vicinity of the capital of the nation where we worship goddess Durga in varied avatars so there we can’t hope for justice. A nation where the soul of a woman seeks for justice even after death but everything goes in vain. The voice of the innocent and ignorant soul , is somewhere subdued by the society thus resulting to death without any cause where in this problem is to be seriously dealt with because girls of today are the mothers for tomorrow are the ones who ought to play a specific role in the development of the nation. So why are the girls neglected in this world? Why not they are respected and given security? Don’t they have the right to seek justice in their own motherland? Can’t they feel safe in the lap of their own mother? The justice in the Delhi rape case is still pending and where a underage rapist of 16 years is considered to be juvenile in the other sense he can do anything and can be described as juvenile. God knows what will be the outcome when the government is silent in this regard. Keeping this criteria in regard nothing could be said. Protests in all ways are useless until we ourselves make our souls purified. Don’t know how many girls are to be sacrificed at the altar. Damini, is not the victim in the real sense, it is the people of the society who are the real victims who need to cleanse their very souls. Nothing more to say just a prayer that justice may be done soon and such devils be punished who are wolves in the garb of sheeps….!!
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From
Nani Manna
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From
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Terrific and pathetic, i guess the words appropriately used for the plight of the pitiable (strata of women) section of the society. A social tradition that is dominated by patriarchy needs to have a second thought…SECURITY!! A concept of concern that goes out in embezzlement.
A female, whatever the age be, whether a girl of 6 or an octogenarian of 80, a query pops out that whether they are safe amidst the safer place even. No , this isn’t the scenario in recent times. Virginia Woolf explains in her essay '' A Room of One's Own'', with conception that, 'A woman must have money and a room of her own if she is to write fiction’. But I guess a women needs to be independent financially and also she should marshal security measures to have her survival in this world. Woolf notes that women have been kept from writing because of their relative poverty, and financial freedom will bring women the freedom to write; "In the first place, to have a room of her own..was out of the question, unless her parents were exceptionally rich or very noble". The title also refers to any author's need for poetic license and the personal liberty to create art.
The essay examines whether women were capable of producing, and in fact free to produce work of the quality of William Shakespeare, addressing the limitations that past and present women writers face. But why such an underestimation of women?? The woman is regarded as the divine soul that gives birth to a life by bearing the pain for 9 months but that pain too gives a smile on her face without any down curve on her face. She smiles and smiles even though tears downpour from her eyes. Without uttering a word she lives her life with dignity and pride from infancy to her grave and not even dare to say a single word in worst situations. Apart from that all she has some expectations in life to bear security , love, care , respect and individuality. Can’t she breathe a few minutes breeze of freedom and jump high in the sky. She can slog and slog in life to reach her destination like a tortoise not a ferocious race like a cheetah is on demand just a secure, dignified life full of breeze of her esteemed identity. Doesn’t have the thought to upset her counterpart or the family but to walk in equilibrium of her soulmate, that she dreams of to be a divine being……love is all she longs for mingled with respect and security.
Restrictions, no doubt, are essential for everyone that is not to be denied because society needs to be calm and serene place. But if the woman are not granted a little security how can one expect to live in peace because every woman is related to a man in one way or the other viz., a mother, a sister, a wife or a daughter…..!! but the so called hypocrites don’t even let the others to live the way they want to live. Least expecting a utopian world but still a secure place to live in is expected by the silent woman as in modern times the best woman is the one who is intellectually inferior of the worst man….!! Every single soul on this earth behaves like a hypocrite including me at times. Atrocities happening in this world was understood,but woman is not even a safer lot in this world.
Referring to Ramayana , I would like to bring into limelight that Ravana ,who in order to avenge Lord Rama and Lakshmana because they dared to cut the nose of Shurpnakha abducted Mata Sita and kept her in Ashokvatika and gave a call to his death. Being a genius and having the knowledge of four Vedas made a small mistake of abducting Mata Sita, is till date burnt on Dusshera with pomp and show but that’s not merely for fun but to learn a lesson from that legendary myth where Lord Rama did everything to save her soul mate from the devious Ravana. Can’t we expect the same in the modern times???? Woman’s counterpart to be a savior, despite of being a devious individual for her. One needs to logical not like a flock of sheep, moving one after the other without reason. Woman needn’t be understood as an animal just WAKE UP !!!!....we are humans and the creation of almighty….!!
Make a difference and set an example for others to follow by accepting the writings and good deeds spread by the woman……!! Its all about our conscience that helps to move in the right direction….!! Scriptures show us the directions and its our intellect that has to follow them…..!! Optimism and the time has the power to heal but for that too nobble deeds are requires.....lets stretch our hands towards a noble deed. Its never too late to start anew.....!!
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I wish i could tell you what i feel,
so that it was possible for my heart to heal.
for me your happiness is must,
how nice it would be not to meet but see you just.
always inclined to see you in person,
i am not divine but only a human,
who fell in love with you,
never thought what i will have to go through.
friendship is valid for your presence,
love is nothing but a lovely essence.
It feels solace to be in your arms,
like a kid your breath swarms.
your words and sigh a tender relief.
you becoming my love my belief.
trust on you i wanna have.
in love i can accept to be your slave.
accept me the way i am.
special to you like a baby in the pram.
the moments were loving like a drop of dew....!!
I wish only once i could tell you.....!!
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Rohina Feminist.
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A single smile is all i need.
a single step i ask u 2 head.
a cozy hug to me is all you give.
if any mistake done, to me you please forgive.
i won't tell i miss you.
even if the days of my life are left few.
with you i want to spend my time.
don't you ever turn back to see if i am fine.
my heart will beat always for you.
as it always only want and love you.
there is nothing that i need.
i want a single moment is all that i plead.
waiting for you till the sun sets.
for you my soul will never rest.
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Rohina Feminist.
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You can never sense my pain,
as you were always interested not in loss but in gain.
i am not a stone that never cries,
nor a immortal that never dies.
i was your friend you said forever,
but broke your promise and proved to be clever.
i wanted the one with whom i can share,
all that i need was your love and care.
no matter you feel or not my tear ,
in front you come will never my pain will appear.
hope you read the tale of my heart,
i never wished from you to get apart.
alone i live, and alone i die,
don't you worry you needn't be wry.
in your absence i learnt to fly and never to cry.
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Rohina Feminist.
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While thinking upon the title just came across that ‘dowry’ could be broken linguistically into two different words viz., ‘Do’ and ‘Wry’. ‘Do ’ means to make an action and ‘Wry’ refers to a bad situation in an amusing way. Don’t you think that the prevalent practice of dowry system has taken a similar situation leading to killing of girls, humiliating them and this practice that was considered a divine blessing for the newly wed couple is proving fatal as it is now nothing else than a material transaction where a boy is sold out just for money. Is a male so inefficient that he can’t earn a single morsel of respect for himself and has to spend his living on the things procured by the girl’s/ brides parents in the form of dowry. A man should have self respect if nothing else. It is just a murder not only of a noble practice but of humanity and ethics... In the Vedic ages or during the time of lord Rama this practice was also prevalent just to mark the beginning of a new life……but what now…..it has turned the life of the couple especially that of a girl into hell.
“God made earth..a heaven to rejoice,
But man….turned it to hell to subdue the spouse’s voice..!!
DIARY OF A BABY
15th jun :- I got attached with ovary
17th jun :- I’m a tissue now
30 Jun :- Mom said to dad, “ You’re
going to be a father”
MOM AND DAD ARE VERY HAPPY
15th Sept :- I Can feel my heartbeat
14oct :- I have Little hands, legs head
and a stomach.
AND ONE DAY I COME ON THIS EARTH WITH HIGH DREAMS WHICH LATER TURN ON TO DEATH. MY SQUEAKY VOICE IS A DEATH KNELL....NOTHING ELSE..HAIL MY LORD....OF SUCH LIFE AND GIVE ME THE COURAGE TO FIGHT THE WORST.
IS FOR THIS INHUMANITY A GIRL IS BROUGHT TO THIS WORLD ,...TO MAKE HER REACH AT THE DEATH ALTAR....??
Some Questions put forth that seeks answers…….!!!!
Is dowry a substitute to work? I know many families whose main source of income and main source of building a house, etc is the money obtained illegally through dowry. Many people don’t take up any credible work outside home and some of them just sit and eat in their homes because they have got the bumper ‘dowry’ prize!
1. Do you think once the money is given, people will stop asking for it? Don’t you think dowry is the seed for life-long demands from the boy’s family?
2. Is dowry given by the girl’s side to control their daughter and son-in-law by making them economically dependent on the parents?
3. Isn’t dowry illegal? How can a whole nation shamelessly break the law? Does it mean that we don’t value the laws set by our representatives, for our own good?
4. If you think dowry benefits women, it definitely doesn’t. It just enslaves women and makes them dependent on the money earned by others. It discourages them from working and being independent?
5. Is the amount of dowry given during marriages a way to show-off one’s social status? I have seen cars (given as dowry) proudly displayed outside marriage halls!
6. Don’t people play the sudden increase in dowry amounts just before one day of the marriage and force women into submission with ‘accepted amount of dowry was never given by your parents’ dialogue?
7. Dowry based deaths/harassments have always been happening. Do all of them come to our notice? Isn’t female infanticide, a result of dowry?
8. With girls and boys equally educated and earning equally today, why should the girl’s side still pay dowry?
9. Because girl’s parents paid hefty amounts in dowry, they suffer huge debts for rest of their lives. Is it right to put one’s parents who brought us up, into such a horrific situation? When they need money or some care during old age, people don’t as much turn up. Forget helping. If no dowry was involved, couldn’t girl’s parents have saved enough money to plan their own future?
The biggest question that puzzles me is – Why do girl’s parents insist on paying dowry? What do you think is the motivation for it?
Dowry is prohibited. The legislation governing this is the Dowry Prohibition Act of 1961. Includes property or valuable security given either by parties to the marriage or their parents. Demand for dowry – whether direct or indirect – amounts to dowry harassment. Punishment is by imprisonment (6 months). Both giving and taking of dowry is punishable.
But is the govt. efficient enough in taking proper steps. In order to eradicate it and save the innocent souls…. Have mercy on us….we are humans , we have dreams to live happily…..every girl has a dream that a prince charming comes on a horse to take her in a place of oblivion where only love, respect and individuality prevails….but now that dream is turning into a nightmare….
“Old order changeth yielding place to new..” an old adage which can be imposed even today can save the lives of many….live a beautiful life.
GIRL, A QUESTION TO YOU” ARE WE SO WEK TO FACE IT AND NOT TAKE A STEP AGAINST IT??”
BOYS “ STAND UP AGAINST THIS EVIL PRACTICE AND PROVE THAT YOU HAVE THE CHARISMA IN YOU TO CREATE MIRACLES AND ERADICATE IT BECAUSE GIRLS COME IN YOUR HOUSE JUST ON YOUR TRUST SO DON’T EVER PROVE YOUR TRUST FALSE AND WAKE UP…..!!!!!!!!”
"I have taken a vow......when will you??????????"
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Woman not in the safer lot any more, as the time passes onto the side of development. Paradoxically, as women improve their lot, grab opportunities and excel, violence against them too grows proportionately. As the number of women per thousand men declines, it spells more trouble for the women who have survived. Women’s day is celebrated worldwide to honor the presence of woman in the world. A single woman if respected the whole of the life can help in changing the scenario of the society. She needs respect, love and care. The celebration of International Women’s Day won’t mark a difference in the women’s lives but it may help us to evaluate the balance sheet and assess our distance from the goals of gender equality and women empowerment. These phrases may sound utopian and lofty and the goals a tad unrealistic when we pursue the daily papers, in any city, anywhere, in India.the main news after the political corruption headlines and the continuing fiascos of the government in power, is of violence against women. Violence against a woman is the main problem, it doesn’t matter whether she is educated or illiterate, from rural background or is urbanized, old or young, upper or lower caste; even infants are not spared from such a violence. She is safe neither in public places n or at her residence…..such a pathetic condition a woman is placed in. she is living in the vicinity of violence and neglect.
The forms of violence of violence are myriad and sometimes boggle our imagination – girl being pulled into the cars, being shot, acid thrown on their faces, being murdered, raped, harassed at work, ‘honor killed’ by parents or siblings in the home, the list of such atrocities will never come to a halt. As the society is progressing so are the atrocities in the society are heading to success. To the most astonishment, the people who are indulged in these acts are the reputable persons. Afraid from the threatening the girls silence themselves to oblivion. Only a small part of the population raises their voice against such act. In our society what is lacking is the gap between the parents and the girl child as I have seen. Parents should help their children to know about the beast and the god in the society and make them aware what the world is and teach then to tackle the worst by being in conversation with them.
It may be safe to assume that the media has space only to report violence with the most dangerous consequences and the most sensational value. It is disheartening that despite not wanting to, one has to return to the depressing topic of ‘violence against women’. For the readers, has such violence become boring, routine and ‘banal’ or commonplace as Hannah Arendt deemed the violence of the Nazis to have become? Has it become the thoughtless ‘everyday’ that ‘just happens’ which most of us read about and move on to the next story? Can we alow this state of affairs to continue..??
The intensifying violence against women could possibly be read as a result of the narrowing of the gender gap. Women are catching up on several development indicators, growing in independence and spreading their wings. This posed a challenge to male patriarchy and masculinity and men were with violence(in the short run, hopefully) to defend their hegemony and power in the existing social arrangements. Is it still the case that women are doing the better and that getting battered is a price that current generations of women have to pay before men adjust to the idea and the fact of gender equality.
Fewer women involves greater risk. Even the parents fear the birth of a girl child just due to the present scenario. Is it a fear for the girl’s future safety that explains their elimination? If so, can governments not take the is bull by the horns and do something about female safety? Instead Chief Ministers and police officials simply throw up their hands and prefer to shackle women and reduce their freedoms. Few, if any have noticed that an excess of males can itself become a threat to female security. Having focused on the decline in the numbers of girl children for so long, it is time that we now focus on the excess f grow males and not only because they can’t find brides..!!
Anecdotal evidence from low sex ratios states reinforces the supposition that violence against women is growing. Abductions, rapes and honor killings are evident in states experiencing a shortage of young girls and adult women.
The shortage of girls defies the economic logic of higher value of scarce goods; indeed the remaining girls and women will be at greater risk as competition over them grows. They will be at the receiving end of greater sexual and reproductive demands, more domestic work and farm work, beginning at younger ages. The hard work gains of more years of education and being able to chose a career and follow their dreams could easily be reversed.
Hence, if we have to dedicate this International Women’s Day to something, we should dedicate it to renewed efforts to restore the balance in the sex ratio and make society violence free for women…….!!
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From
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LIFE, IS FULL OF EMOTIONS,
WHICH MAY HAVE DIFFERENT CONNOTATIONS
AT TIMES YOU LAUGH AND SOMETIMES YOU CRY
YOU ASK NO REASON WHEN TO LAUGH,
BUT AT THE OTHER YOU ALWAYS AK WHY??
EMOTIONS, ARE LIKE WAVE OF THUNDER,
AND IS UPTO YOU HOW TO SURRENDER,
YOU CAN REGARD EMOTION AS THE BIGGEST WONDER.
COMES LIKE A GUST OF WIND,
WHEN PASSED IS DIFFICULT TO FIND AND REWIND,
SAD EMOTIONS ARE DIFFICULT TO WIND.
BRINGS HAPPINESS AND LIFE,
NO MATTER HOW MUCH FOR IT YOU HAVE TO STRIFE.
AT ONE MOMENT MAKES YOU SMILE,
AND AT THE OTHER MAKES YOU CRY,
WITH LABOURED EASR OF LOSS KEEPS YOU WRY……!!
HAS NONE TO CARESS.
ACTS AS A TEACHER AND THE PREACHER,
WITH TIME MAKES LIFE RICHER AND RICHER.
FLIES LIKE A KITE,
DOESN’T MATTER YOU STRUGGLE OR FIGHT.
WIN OR LOOSE ISN’T THE CASE,
IS NOTHING ELSE BUT A BUNCH OF FLOWERS IN A BEAUTIFUL VASE….!!
EMOTIONS ALWAYS HURT,
BEST WAY TO FIGHT OUT,
JUST SLOG, SLOG &SLOG……………..!!!!!!!!!!!
TILL YOU HAVE REACHED FAR OUT.
CHANGE THE PATH AND MOVE APAR,
SO NO ONE TO CAN EVER THWART…..!!!!!!
THINK OF IT AS THE ROAD NOT TAKEN,
JUST TAKE A LESSON AS SOMETHING TO LEARN…..!!!!!!
KEEP HOPE AND MOVE ON,
BE STRONG AND TOUGH,
SAD EMOTIONS WILL ITSELF WITHER AWAY,
AS THOUGH IT HASN’T EVER WITHERED YOU…!!!!
AS BEING ROUGH AND TOUGH, IN YOUR JUDGEMENT YOU NEVER APPER TO BE WRONG,
HENCE, SLOG, SLOG, SLOG & SLOG………………………………….!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ALWAYS BE OPTIMISTIC & STRONG……………….!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
KEEP SMILING…..:)
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From
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Purple sky with reddish tinted cloud,
Just give it a thought how magical is sound…………..!!
A perfect romantic weather with moon so bright,
Showering its blessings with milky twilight…………!!
Hope and love showering all the way,
To see you soon waiting for that glorious day………!!
Perfect blend of hope and joy,
Waiting to welcome the mythical boy……………!!
No clue no hint,
Just the eyes with a sparkling glint……………..!!
A pale tint hovers my mind,
What is that keeps you lagging and nagging behind…………..!!
Stars shimmering in the sweet and mysterious night,
Like glorious eyes blinking to behold the site…………!!
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From
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God is the creator of the world. No doubt he can’t be compared or nothing can’t be done against him. He is the Almighty, the supreme. But Man has, in this era started to think and assume himself supreme and more powerful than Him. God is the divine power that runs the entire universe. Man has become so materialistic that everything comes to his mind, appears to his eyes, seems to be merely deception or mirage.
The man has is so disillusioned by his own being or self and his world that he started accepting the true self i.e., almighty, the divine as a mere disillusionment. To quote an incident, a friend of mine posted a photograph of Shirdi Sai Baba and underneath wrote that “GOD IS FAKE”. He was distressed in his life may be the reasons are the failures or the lagging behind from time and the materialistic world. It could be any reason that he started cursing the Lord Almighty. But to sheer astonishment and to my amazement, it was his lack of confidence and his helplessness that he imposed on the Lord.
In the modernized era of the so called machine age where man is no more than a machine there is a majority of population who want to achieve everything to be delivered at their doorstep or merely spoon feeding, don’t want to work hard or if they are working hard and honestly they are not rewarded sufficiently and they have no option than to cure the Almighty.
So disillusioned the world has been made by the materialistic world that he has not even left the Almighty of cursing and accusing the Divinity of forgery. The reality of the modern world is far beyond understanding to a person who has his own values and principles and who loves and adores the Divine. It is such a sad state of affairs and great thing of concern. Man, has for his fulfillment of his desires has devastated the entire beautiful creation of God and is himself on the verge of extinction and blames God as a fraudulent. IS IT WORTHWHILE? JUST GIVE IT A THOUGHT.
I hope God may help the one who have paved a downtrodden path in life and may god show them light of hope and trust and save the Mother Earth. To conclude in a nutshell, “Such a dilemmatic situation that a human suspecting God and his ways of justice. When he can’t confide in himself , how can he confide in the Almighty…..and this has become the fact in the modern era….!!!!”
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From
Rohina Feminist.
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“Hundreds of dewdrops to greet the dawn,
Hundreds of bees in the purple clover,
Hundreds of butterflies on the lawn,
But only one mother the wide world over.”
~George Cooper
The real religion of the world comes from women much more than from men - from mothers most of all, who carry the key of our souls in their bosoms. A mother is the truest friend we have, when trials heavy and sudden, fall upon us; when adversity takes the place of prosperity; when friends who rejoice with us in our sunshine desert us; when trouble thickens around us, still will she cling to us, and endeavor by her kind precepts and counsels to dissipate the clouds of darkness, and cause peace to return to our hearts.
Before a day was over,
Home comes the rover,
For mother's kiss - sweeter this
Than any other thing!
In everyone's life, at some time, our inner fire goes out. It is then burst into flame by an encounter with another human being. We should all be thankful for those people who rekindle the inner spirit. The special date “8th MAY” is celebrated in the world as “WORLD MOTHER’S DAY”, to honour mothers and motherhood. A mother loves and caresses her child without making any discrimination between the two. For a mother, her children are the best , better than the rest ….! “Maa” , a word which can relieve all pains and worries and MAA is the same in the entire universe since ages………..maa ….sometimes I think what will happen when she won’t be near me, to support me, to love me, to adore me.. her blessings will be there since eternity but in the life of a girl she has suffer a lot. Just wish ……………maa to be with me……..mother love is not in humans but its in bounty in all the species of this world….no matter where , and how…………..love u maaaaaaaaaa………….be with me….dedicting a song to my maa.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aRE0mgSU6Dc&feature=related
Main Kabhi Batlata Nahin
Par Andhere Se Darta Hoon Main Maa
Yun To Main,Dikhlata Nahin
Teri Parwaah Karta Hoon Main Maa
Tujhe Sab Hain Pata, Hain Na Maa
Tujhe Sab Hain Pata,,Meri Maa
Bheed Mein Yun Na Chodo Mujhe
Ghar Laut Ke Bhi Aa Naa Paoon Maa
Bhej Na Itna Door Mujkko Tu
Yaad Bhi Tujhko Aa Naa Paoon Maa
Kya Itna Bura Hoon Main Maa
Kya Itna Bura Meri Maa
Jab Bhi Kabhi Papa Mujhe
Jo Zor Se Jhoola Jhulate Hain Maa
Meri Nazar Dhoondhe Tujhe
Sochu Yahi Tu Aa Ke Thaamegi Maa
Unse Main Yeh Kehta Nahin
Par Main Seham Jaata Hoon Maa
Chehre Pe Aana Deta Nahin
Dil Hi Dil Mein Ghabraata Hoon Maa
Tujhe Sab Hai Pata Hai Naa Maa
Tujhe Sab Hai Pata Meri Maa
Main Kabhi Batlata Nahin
Par Andhere Se Darta Hoon Main Maa
Yun To Main,Dikhlata Nahin
Teri Parwaah Karta Hoon Main Maa
Tujhe Sab Hain Pata, Hain Na Maa
Tujhe Sab Hain Pata,,Meri Maa
"HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY"
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From
Rohina Feminist.
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Fly high, touch and feel the warmth of the sky,
Gift Endless wings to fly....!!
The World is waiting for you,
You can easily see and pass through.....!!
Ways are many ahead,
If you are all alone, never assume yourself to be dead.....!!
Slog, Slog and Slog,
Till you remove from your life the cloud of darkness and the fog.....!!
SLOG, SLOG AND SLOG.......!!!!!
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From
Rohina Feminist.
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Love is Life for those who are in Love,
For them it as beautiful as a dove.
Pangs of love are dreadful and rare,
Only those can understand those who dare and care.
Rhythmic and soothing they feel,
When to meet when each other’s heart they steal.
Sensational, peaceful and emotional is the moment,
Love can’t be quoted in verse,
Needs an ode or an epic.
Its so true and pure,
Its just that you feel to endure.
Dedicated to someone special who adored it ..!!!!<3
10th April 2011
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From
Rohina Feminist.
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Moving on a trodden path,
Heart heavy and curbing wrath.
Bewildered and oblivious in myself,
Finding the existence of thyself.
In a world of people so illusionary,
Says what the deceptive and who are so visionary.
Asks us never to fear and to drop a tear,
Are illusionary relations that call us so dear.
And the love and tenderness isn’t true and clear.
Am diverged in lively relations,
Lost all happiness & elation.
Lost in finding a new hope & a way ,
Every moment in a sway.
Life isn’t a rose but a dried hay,
That doesn’t let me happy and gay.
World is a whirlpool,
Gulp everything even a pearl.
I am a girl, the pearl gulped in,
With all illusions and whim.
Wanna be a free bird to fly,
Finding my existence, How, What and Why….??
Finding Where, When and Who am I….??
Who Am I…….????
Who Am I….…????
26March 2011
7:00 AM
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From
Rohina Feminist.
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God's beautiful creation that occurred after 20 years of time span. At around 3:30 A.M in the morning, while I was in my study room and about to go to sleep , A very sharp shining light peeped into my room with a cute smile, a sharp glitter that was so magnificent.....WOW ! What a splendid view....I got up and looked it from the window of my room. it looked awesome, splendid and so fresh and beautiful like a mermaid amidst the ocean comes on the surface to for basking in the sun.. Last - Night's super perigee moon was a rare treat. It was 14% bigger, and 30% brighter than usual.When the super perigee moon hits the sky,like a big pizza pie, that's amore.
It was emitting full light was so beutiful and magnificent. it appeared bigger and clear from my room itself that i couldnot resist myself to capture the glimpse of the divine moon in my mobile phone. I was so delighted to see its serene beauty that i was unable to sleep as it was peeping in my room from my window and just wanted to describe it . A cute moon as its youth, shining so bright amidst the stars in the vast open sky and calm and serene in the lap of the mother nature like a small baby sleeping in the lap of the mother irrespective of all evils...amazing....!! Not only this it had the hypnotizing and magical impact on the eyes of the beholder. , spreading its light in all directions giving the message of hope, love , humanity and calmness to brighten up the horizons of the world..with new hopes and life... No matter what scientists opine at its evil powers but it has the soothing effect and being a nature lover and a spectator , I observed its divine beauty that attracted me the most.....
Coming to the astrological impact , it is considered auspicious in terms of peace and harmony.its really true and divine creation of the mother nature, the almighty that has presented such a serene view in the calm atmosphere.
Like a baby sleeping in the lap of her mother and a girl in her full youth. The lines that popped in my mind that can best describe the view are " Chand apne pure chawab aur yowan me tha, jis tarah ek ladki apne yowan me hoti hai "Similarly the moon was shining amidst the vast sky.......God has such vast hidden surprises in his packet like a child in the womb of her mother that makes us delighted. but with delight comes the warning as well i.e., what scientists do opine at it.....but i relished the moment and its too lovely to gaze at the moon..........so beautiful was the moon......!!!!! giving thereby the message of hope , happiness , humanity, love and soothness.....!!!!
19th- March-2011
3:30 A.M
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From
Rohina Feminist.
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William Shakespeare is considered as a genius in English literature and he gave literature a new horizon . the text that i am quoting is the best that represents all aspects and phases of life that one has to go through. so true and exact that reveals the intensity of human nature and human role as a mere puppets in the hands of god who has send us on this stage to perform the given roles from infancy to old age and such artistically he has presented the beauty of all stages of life that it makes us admire his being a genius ....so true and exact.................!!
"All the world's a stage,
And all the men and women merely players;
They have their exits and their entrances;
And one man in his time plays many parts,
His acts being seven ages. At first the infant,
Mewling and puking in the nurse's arms;
And then the whining school-boy, with his satchel
And shining morning face, creeping like snail
Unwillingly to school. And then the lover,
Sighing like furnace, with a woeful ballad
Made to his mistress' eyebrow. Then a soldier,
Full of strange oaths, and bearded like the pard,
Jealous in honour, sudden and quick in quarrel,
Seeking the bubble reputation
Even in the cannon's mouth. And then the justice,
In fair round belly with good capon lin'd,
With eyes severe and beard of formal cut,
Full of wise saws and modern instances;
And so he plays his part. The sixth age shifts
Into the lean and slipper'd pantaloon,
With spectacles on nose and pouch on side;
His youthful hose, well sav'd, a world too wide
For his shrunk shank; and his big manly voice,
Turning again toward childish treble, pipes
And whistles in his sound. Last scene of all,
That ends this strange eventful history,
Is second childishness and mere oblivion;
Sans teeth, sans eyes, sans taste, sans everything."
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Posted on
Tuesday, May 17, 2011
3:35:59 PM
Modified on
Tuesday, May 17, 2011
3:36:57 PM
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From
Rohina Feminist.
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Posted on
Monday, March 21, 2011
12:19:46 PM
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From
Ravi Upadhyaya
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Posted on
Saturday, March 19, 2011
11:00:46 PM
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11:01:19 PM
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From
Nani Manna
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From
Rohina Feminist.
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Love is in itself a sweet dream,
Doesn't care about any boundary.
Neither Rich nor Poor,
Divine, blessed and so pure.
Neither ugliness nor beauty,
Only gives happiness in bounty.
Distance doesn't matter,
Far or near doesn't need any flatter.
Old saying,: All is fair in war love...",
Is too tender and delicate like a Dove.........
Once we should love in life,
To suffer all the barricades that it has to strife...........!!!!!!!!!!
Rinnie....:-)
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From
Rohina Feminist.
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Just smile and be beautiful ........!! marvelous lines by a friend of mine, so touching and fluent. sounds optimistic and different. Said in a moment without any hesitation .. True and exact.. A Smile can create wonders and miracles . The winner in this world, in the true sense of the word, is the one who keep smiling in times of adversities, disregard of what has happened in the past and unaware of the future times that are heading his way, makes one beautiful and glamorous more than those who apply the beauty products and artificial things and behavior apart from the courage and all boldly attributes that will win you a swarm of flatterers with falsehood for a brief moment. But if you smile for yourself and the people around you without thinking that you will be re-payed back, that spreads the divine aura and fill the air with positive ambiance in the atmosphere around you.. divinity and optimism conquers you and makes you all the more beautiful and stunning. Smile can create miracles that no other attitude is able to do so. Just be yourself , love thyself , smile and conquer the world with the divine beauty..........
The rose blossoms and spreads its fragrance and its beauty to all the corners of the world giving hope and the message to be beautiful despite of thorns in it , became the symbol of beauty and the world. So should we keep Smiling and be beautiful, like the shining sun and the smiling sweet cute kid..........:-) just be what you are.......!
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Posted on
Saturday, March 19, 2011
1:34:21 PM
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From
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Posted on
Wednesday, March 16, 2011
12:32:08 PM
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From
Ravi Upadhyaya
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Posted on
Wednesday, March 16, 2011
10:22:48 AM
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From
Prof. Prem Mohan Lakhotia
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Posted on
Tuesday, March 15, 2011
11:03:07 PM
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From
Nani Manna
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Posted on
Tuesday, March 15, 2011
10:31:49 PM
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From
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Posted on
Tuesday, March 15, 2011
10:23:38 PM
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From
Rohina Feminist.
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Posted on
Tuesday, March 15, 2011
8:34:11 PM
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From
Ganesh - R
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From
Rohina Feminist.
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Divinity in the lap of nature..
to view him as a heavenly stature .
Lord Shiva, the ultimate power ..
bless us thee and upon us the love you shower.
you are the unique beauty,
to worship you is to us more than our duty .
you are the truth . . . .the Shiva ,
the ultimate power and pure divine diva.
Bless us O lord , to reach our goal. . . .
to purify our withered soul. .
Almighty , you are the aura that unite ,
and spread in all direction your divine light.
the divinity in al vicinity,
bless us! bless us! O sweet almighty. . . .!
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